Thanks for your note. A couple days ago, Yael Wolfe published this article on not feeling like a "real woman" (because it is an unattainable standard) and how she's learned from trans people (though she herself isn't trans). I stumbled across it this morning. Just sending it along in case you are interested!

https://yaelwolfe.medium.com/a-thank-you-note-for-the-trans-community-2622fb087769