Talk About Values, But Not With Everyone—and Choose When to Say No3 small, healthy tips for today6h ago6h ago
I’m Not Reading This Type of U.S. Election PostmortemTrans people shouldn’t be blamed22h ago122h ago1
If You Can’t Campaign on It, How Can You Achieve It in Office Either?You can’t shove aside an inconvenient group of people during a campaign and expect to be able to address their needs in office.3d ago53d ago5
‘Compensation is Zero’ in the DOGE Working GroupIt isn’t a real federal department anyway4d ago14d ago1
Published inPrism & PenI Want to See Every Word That Celebrates Our City’s Sexual Health HotlineI’ll repaint the mural myself if I have to6d ago146d ago14
Published inIdentity CurrentMy Identity Is a ‘Luxury Belief’, and Other Reasons Trump WonNYT columnist David Brooks says Trump voters just wanted ‘respect’ — and that’s somehow at odds with me being gayNov 86Nov 86
The US Has an Election Result. What Will We Do Now?The way forward is muddy. A few words I’ve collected from others.Nov 62Nov 62
I Can’t Write the Anti-Gay Argument for HimNo one wants to be called a ‘bigot’ or a ‘fascist’. But it’s not my job to give him alternate explanations for his reasons or feelings.Nov 53Nov 53
Can You Do Your Political Work If Trump Is Elected?Think of his indictments, Christian Nationalism, and the climate crisis. Think of how we’ll organize.Nov 4Nov 4
We’ll Need to Heal From This Years-Long Torrent of InsultsBut we don’t need to fix or forgive those who continue to hurt usNov 32Nov 32